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No Blood On My Hands - Peter D. Freeman
by Hannabelle
Mille Lacs News Staff Writer
January 22, 2010
In seeking the wisdom of professionals most
knowledgeable about juvenile sex offenders, I ran across the fields of
psychology, abnormal psychology, and yes - social work. I freely admit that
when I needed the support and advice of an expert, I contacted Dr. Barbara
W. Shank, Dean of St. Thomas University's Social Work Department.
Naturally, I had hoped that she would discretely talk some sense into one of
the faculty members - Peter D. Freeman, a board member of Nexus who is now
suing me. Peter D. Freeman is suing me because I embarrassed him.
As there is no defamation, I'll share one of
the portions that Attorney Victor Lund claims is defamatory. BUT,
unlike Victor, who chose to quote me out of context, I'll include the entire
section:
"Your faculty member - Peter Freeman - is
making decisions down in St. Paul which are greatly impacting on the lives
of many people in Bradbury Township. He will not even honor us by listening
to us. His actions are responsible for so much suffering, yet he will not
take responsibility for the harm he is causing. He is like the fellow who -
in between sips of coffee - pushes the button that launches the missile
which destroys the village, then holds up his hands, saying "See? No blood
on MY hands." "1
This is not defamation, it is a metaphor. And
since it has caused so much trouble, it probably isn't an effective one.
What it means is that Peter D. Freeman does not live in our community. He is
not our neighbor. He does not know us or care about us. Yet he had the power
to destroy the integrity of our peaceful neighborhood with his decision to
put sex offenders next to day-care. Peter D. Freeman also had the power to
stop the town council from buying that particular property, simply by
telling the council that it is the common knowledge in Social Work, his
field of "expertise" to place sex offender institutions far away
from residential. You don't put sex offenders next to little old ladies. You
don't even have to be an expert in social work to understand that. Its
pretty basic.
I also said in the Shank email, part that
Victor has never called to the judge's attention, knowing it would be a
miracle if the judge's actually read the submitted exhibits:
"There are other, appropriate places for
the sex offender facility which won't jeopardize people. A residential
neighborhood is no place for this type of institution. I hope that you will
talk to Peter Freeman about finding a different location..."
The problem it seems, isn't what I said in the
email.
It is that I sent an email to Peter D. Freeman's
supervisor at all.
But what recourse do we have for dealing with
someone who hangs up the phone at the mere mention of our name, and refuses
to communicate? Was I supposed to throw my hands in the air (no blood on my
hands) and say, "Oh well. He won't talk to me. I give up. Go ahead and put
sex offenders next to day-care"? Victor says:
"The contents of e-mails sent by
[Hannabelle] to Peter Freeman's fellow faculty members at the University of
St. Thomas and the College of St. Catherine are false, scurrilous and
defamatory. They have caused Peter Freeman embarrassment and injured his
reputation. The statements tend to lower Peter Freeman's co-workers'
estimation of him. The statements tend to call into question his competence
as a member of the Department of Social Work. The statements have caused
monetary damages in an amount yet to be determined."2
There you have it. I embarrassed someone so
now he is suing me. We've all seen it happen a million times. First they
turn red in the face, then KaCHING! another law suit hits the docket.
But seriously, let me ask you this: Why
couldn't Peter Freeman simply talk to his colleagues one on one, or send
them his own email explaining that this Hannabelle chick is a half-crazed
NIMBY nut who doesn't understand why its perfectly safe to put sex offenders
in a residential neighborhood? He could have said anything about me. He
could bash me to bits. I would never know what he said to them in a private
conversation. And I wouldn't sue him for defamation even if I knew he called
me a half-crazed NIMBY nut. (I wear it like a badge of honor.) He's entitled
to his opinion of me. Free speech and all that. So why couldn't Peter
Freeman just explain the Nexus/NIMBY conflict to his colleagues? He's the
social worker. I'm not. He's their colleague. I'm not.
Think about it:
Why was Peter Freeman embarrassed?
How did my statements injure his reputation?
How could my
statements lower his co-workers' estimation of him?
How could my statements call his competence into
question
as a member of the Department of Social Work?
I'll tell you. It is because sex offender
institutions do not belong in residential areas and as a professional social
worker, Peter Freeman should have known better. His colleagues knew
better. Yes, Peter should have been embarrassed - for his own
unprofessional bad judgment. Peter D. Freeman, social worker, embarrassed
himself by his own bad behavior. And then he blamed his victims,
specifically me.
He chose to take it out on me. He decided to
"get back at" me. He decided to vindictively use the Judicial System as a
weapon, letting his lying lawyer do his dirty work. No. There's still no
blood on Peter Freeman's hands.
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1. Plaintiffs' Exhibit A - email to Barbara
Shank
2. Plaintiff's Summons and Complaint
11/6/2007
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